{"id":14702,"date":"2024-07-29T21:55:34","date_gmt":"2024-07-29T18:55:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/?p=14702"},"modified":"2024-07-29T21:59:30","modified_gmt":"2024-07-29T18:59:30","slug":"plaan-b","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/et\/plaan-b\/","title":{"rendered":"Plaan B"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kas sina oled kellegi plaan B?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Minu juures k\u00e4is vastuv\u00f5tul mees, kes, tunnistas, et peale lahkuminekut pani tema eks kaaslane ta varumeeste pingile. Et kui paremat ei leia, siis on varumees alati v\u00f5tta. Ja esmapilgul lohutust pakkuv positsioon on selle mehe t\u00e4ielikult \u00e4ra kurnanud. Selle asemel, et oma eluga edasi minna, on ta pidevalt ootel ja oma eksi k\u00e4eulatuses v\u00f5i telefonik\u00f5ne kaugusel. Ma n\u00e4en selle mehe silmis valu ja kannatust, mida p\u00f5hjustab lahtine emotsionaalne haav. See haav ei saa kokku kasvada ja paraneda, kuna sinna raputatakse iga p\u00e4ev soola peale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p>Tema eks t\u00fcdruk j\u00e4ttis n\u00e4iteks oma kassi tema juurde elama, et k\u00e4ia oma kiisut vaatamas. Mees ei saa kassi talle tagasi anda, kuna naine ei taha oma kassi enda juures hoida. V\u00f5ib j\u00e4\u00e4ta mulje, et tegemist on l\u00fchikest kasvu tossikesega, kes laseb endaga niimoodi k\u00e4ituda, aga tegelikkuses on see suur ja tugev mees, kes on pikka kasvu sportlik ja sile. Tal on laiad \u00f5lad ja v\u00e4ga mehelikud n\u00e4ojooned. Sellise mehe peale jookseksid naised tormi, aga kuna ta on energeetiliselt selle eks pruudi valduses, siis ta \u00fctleb, et teised isegi ei vaata tema poole.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Pildi autor : Tehisintellekt\" class=\"wp-image-14703\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B-600x900.jpg 600w, https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/07\/Plaan-B.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Mida siis teha sellises olukorras, kus oled kellegi varuvariant?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>K\u00f5igepealt tuleb aru saada, et selline suhe ei ole j\u00e4tkusuutlik ja sa v\u00e4\u00e4rid paremat. Siit tekib vajadus tegelda oma enesehinnanguga, et m\u00f5ista oma v\u00e4\u00e4rtust ning tunnistada oma tegelikke vajadusi. Sest mitte keegi meist ei ole s\u00fcndinud siia, et olla kellegi tagavara variant. Iga\u00fche jaoks on olemas sobilik partner, kellega koos luua unistuste-elu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seej\u00e4rel tuleb teha k\u00f5ige raskem samm ja l\u00f5petada see lohisev suhe. Mehel peab olema <a href=\"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/et\/meeste-hirm-naiste-ees\/\">julgust<\/a>, et \u00f6elda naisele: \u201cSee suhe on l\u00e4bi ja ma liigun oma eluga edasi.\u201d See v\u00f5ib tunduda hirmutav, aga nagu \u00fctleb vanas\u00f5na: \u201cParem \u00f5udne l\u00f5pp, kui l\u00f5putu \u00f5udus\u201d. Kehtesta oma piirid, v\u00e4ljenda oma vajadused ning austa ennast nii palju, et sa ei lepi v\u00e4hemaga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kui sul on raske leida endas see j\u00f5ud ja julgus, siis p\u00f6\u00f6rdu minu poole ja \u00fcheskoos me leiame \u00fcles sinu <a href=\"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/et\/teraapia\/kootsing\/\">peidetud potensiaali <\/a>ning taastame enesekindluse, mis aitab sul leida oma t\u00f5eline armastus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/learn2touch.com\/et\/igor-earthchild\/\">Igor Earthchild<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Massaa\u017ei terapeut ja coach<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kas sina oled kellegi plaan B? Minu juures k\u00e4is vastuv\u00f5tul mees, kes, tunnistas, et peale lahkuminekut pani tema eks kaaslane ta varumeeste pingile. Et kui paremat ei leia, siis on varumees alati v\u00f5tta. Ja esmapilgul lohutust pakkuv positsioon on selle mehe t\u00e4ielikult \u00e4ra kurnanud. 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