SITTING BACK TO BACK
BUILDING TRUST WITH YOUR PARTNER
Trusting life can happen through surrendering. It doesn’t mean you have to allow others to treat you with no respect. Surrendering means that you can see the bigger picture in which all that is happening, has it’s meaning. You can stay in the flow and enjoy the process that you are in with your relationship. You allow things to happen and instead you surrender to it and trust everything that life brings you. Start to train yourself to see the positive side of these events, not always focus on negative.
There are always situations that we can change. Then it’s up to us to make the necessary step towards the change.
If you want to go deeper into your shadow side, these questions might help you to share some insights with your lover. Take time to answer these questions and share with your partner what is happening inside of you.
Tell me what are you longing in relationship? What do you want to experience in love-life?
Describe, what is the most frightening thing for you that could happen?
Please share with me your secret that you haven’t shared with anyone.
Thank you for being honest with me! I honour your transparency and braveness. How can I help you to process these feelings right now?
Then you can change roles.