The first stage of relationship is built on desire. It is hot and vibrant time, when we are turned on by our partner in every way. Then we move to the next stage where we start to notice details that are more pleasant for us than others. We start to choose the way we want to be treated in order to feel loved and turned on. This is the stage where we realise, that our way of perceiving love might be different from our partner. It is important to realise that we have different approach to love and expression of it. That’s why we recommend you to take time and make the test below to find out what is the main love language for each one of you. Then share it with one another and have a discussion how would you meet each other’s expectations to achieve the best mach and maximum pleasure in your relationship.
Learn to be a good listener. Take some time and attention to be there for your lover and really listen with no judgements or advice. Just be present with your full attention and loving presence. This could lead you to the common field, where you feel and understand your partner even without words.
Today's exercise is CHANNELING. It's a powerful massage practice, that helps to awaken the sexual energy and channel it throughout the body.
Take time and make the test below to find out what is the main love language for each one of you. Then share it with one another and have a discussion how would you meet each other's expectations to achieve the best mach and maximum pleasure in your relationship.
Today's challenge for you is to dress up your partner. Choose the clothes from your lover's closet and put the clothes on without her/his help. This could be fun game but it also can trigger some unpleasant emotions. So take time and patience with it and make sure you don't hurt your lover's feelings. Have fun!
If you didn’t experience any emotions or feelings, these questions might help you to share some insights with your lover. Take time to answer these questions to share with your partner what is happening inside of you.
How does it impact your relationship? What could you or your partner do different so that you could feel better?
I love the most about your nature
I feel you as my best friend every time, when you …
Now hug each other for at least a minute, while concentrating on gratitude towards your partner. It’s such a gift to have somebody by your side who listens to you and pays attention with such compassion.
Then you can change roles.
Here is a good pose for you to have this conversation in a safe and close space:
